Boy's Locker Room,Girl's Downcast

I still remember the first time I uploaded a picture on my facebook account, all my mom kept saying was : it's not safe, people will misuse your pictures.Back then, I thought she was foolish and was just being protective. I thought it was safe, nothing would happen,there was no harm in sharing pictures. But this "Boy's locker room" proved me wrong! It's not the first time girls are being disrespected like this, who knows how many groups like this are still present?, maybe even people around you, boys you trust are upto things like these, yes with all these happening who would actually trust others again, you aren't just having fun doing all these, you are snatching away her freedom, her comfort zone! 

Girl's don't have a right to post pictures, sorry they lost their right indeed, every thing they do is publicized, damnn her body is not meant for you to talk, she's something more than her physical appearance, she has a life dude. 

How dare you snatch away her life? 

Do you even have an idea how much the girl would suffer knowing what all you did to her? What if the morphed images you make and talk about disgustingly go to pornography sites, what if she commits suicide because of the mental breakdown, will you answer her parents, will you bring her back? 

Body shaming, passing comments, disrepcting women has become a trend now. Asking her bra size, sending her vulgar messages, misusing her pictures, it's such a shame on you!  It's the worst you could do to her, it ruins her entire life and it is so damn hard to get over it.

Before doing such things think! Think what if someone does the same to your sister, bestfriend or your girlfriend! She trusts you because she believes you, because she loves you, that doesn't mean she's giving a chance to ruin her life, Stop making girls feel bad about themselves!! And girls it is not in your dress, it's in their thought 

I feel so depressed, disturbed, heartbroken 

Who the hell gave them right to objectify girls like that, you may hide your identity now but the girl  is left traumatized, mortified, offended and the worst of all she lost all the trust she has been having on every boy in her life till date, she lost her self confidence, 

Who would bring it back to her? You? The one who is still not ashamed of your acts and wants to rape the girls defaming you ?

I still wonder what education has taught you? How to be such morons? How to be such a loser? And to the girl's who are still supporting your friends, Are you people even in your senses? 

The funniest part being people telling it's common, boys will be boys, these are just casual talks, If only you come in front of me I would rip your hair off you idiots, don't you understand the depth of such things ?

Where is the world going into? 

Where is the humanity? 

Things like these come and go 

People like me react and forget 

But when would  there be a full stop to this?  Socch kab badhlega? 

After all the things your girls do for you, our mothers do for us, they least expect us to make this world a better place to live in. 

What are we doing for that? 

Yes I'm ashamed to be one of them not doing anything except feeling disgraced for everything happening .

But now, I want to change, I want people to change, I want this society to change. 

Girls, when you see your bestfriend or brother randomly commenting a girl, stop him , make him understand how bad it is. 

Boys, when you are part of such groups don't let the silence rule you,  roar hard and stop the shit going on. 

Teachers , start the 'real' education in schools atleast from now , tell students they have no right to disrespect eachother .

Let me end it on this note : It's not about guys or girls, this is not about feminism, it's about the basic humanity, no individual has a right to bodyshame,insult, hurt the other let it be a boy or a girl 

Please leave some dignity, love, compassion, fellow feeling left in this world :)